Correction: there is a MAJOR different between trauma and manipulation. And people who have experienced trauma are actually more likely to be the victims of manipulation, especially if he comes from a loved one so that they can try to maintain that sense of safety and security.
Can people who have experienced trauma be manipulative? ABSOLUTELY. But saying someone has a predisposition to being manipulative from the trauma they’ve experienced is SERIOUSLY narrow minded and ignorant…
i think it's about the dose with "try to maintain that sense of safety and security".
Giovanni could get to fight his fears to do good for Felix. even he already knew what Felix would say that Felix would not leave him. but he chose to remain silent. He does love Felix, but by he can 'let him go'. i mean even when Felix chooses to leave him, if hes a good boiii, he will let it be as long as it is Felix's choice and he, Gio, has given his best. But now he seems to stay, stand, and choose to not let Felix go foe every reason.
Things can be complicated. but first, for me, i will faith to Gio.
I have faith in him too and we can both agree that we truly wish the best for them as a couple
I just want to make sure that you understand that trauma does not always lead to manipulation and that the two are not always a given for one another
Yes ❐‿❑, i agree with you. trauma does not always lead to manipulation.
there is a slight difference between trauma and manipulative. At this time, hes trauma. but who knows the future. trauma can change people.