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I want to read this. Sorry it's not an answer.
This one does not have a friend tying it nor does it have a mother but the rest is pretty much the same.
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/sore_wa_tabetewa_ikemasen/tr/64826/page/157/
thanks so much!!!! this is it
You're welcome :)
looking for a oneshot? where the uke's mom neglected him and he learned how to tie his shoe by himself. later in high school he doesn't know how to tie his tie so the seme (teacher) always help him tie it for him. one day the seme saw one of the uke's friend helping him tie his tie and got jealous. the seme later told the uke that he should learn to tie his own tie and left the uke alone. next day uke came to school with his tie tied in a bow like how he ties his shoelace.