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In reality its normal guys prefer there own bed really even if they're a couple me as a gay man i wouldnt share a bed with my partner either as i like my own space after sex

actually not really... having two beds are quiet useful you know?? its not just that it gives each of them their own space but also when you're done messing with the first bed then you can both cuddle in the other bed.... sweetness overload.... ε=ε=(ノ≧∇≦)ノ

you have it right! lol, naw, people all have their preferences. not everyone HAS to do what the majority do.

I watch a lot of Japanese dorama and I see this two bed thing more than I thought I would.

The first ever dorama was between a pair of older married couple, so it made me think that: oh maybe it's only old custom.

But next dorama featured young couple!

Then another dorama too, there's a young married couple (less than 5 years married, 20something, modern 21st century setting, going out to buy two single futons! The saleswoman actually offered couple (double size) futons that was on discount (it was couple's day or something), and they bought TWO couples futon lol. Then at home (old style house inherited from dead frandma) they put the futons side by side and sleep one each. Then they told one another "wow, this is comfortable! but the room feel smaller ne?"

So, I guess having separate beds is more common (in Japan?) than we think?

It is common to have seperate beds me and my partner have two double beds in the seperated from each other sometimes we sleep in the same bed sometimes we dont

Suppose to say two double beds in the same room