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Age gaps

La pomme de terre July 15, 2021 7:06 am

Dating an older man can be hard. For me the hardest part was when the argument turned into scolding, my partner would start treating me like a child, our communication would be one sided and we would get nowhere. Then there is also the obvious age gap, I was also 10 years younger than he was and I was always worried that he didn’t consider me adult enough to be with him; the insecurity was always there. Even though I really loved him the relationship came to an end when he wanted to become more serious, meaning marriage, and I was not ready. At this point in my life I still think of him and sometimes regret parting with him, I really liked him because he was mature and knew what he wanted in our relationship, assertive even. Sometimes I wonder if our age gap was the main reason we broke up. Last I heard of him, he’s married and has a kid already.

Responses
    小松 July 19, 2021 2:32 pm

    Im crying

    Waifu_ July 20, 2021 12:38 am

    F

    Anne-san July 20, 2021 1:58 am

    why the F am I crying for you? Goshhh my heart, I know you must be bittersweet, wishing for his happiness, but I also feel like you would like to be in the place of that woman, so sad I'm sobbing ╥﹏╥

    Whose Your Daddy? July 20, 2021 4:51 am

    This was such a beautiful thing to read!! *crying*

    La pomme de terre July 20, 2021 7:39 am
    why the F am I crying for you? Goshhh my heart, I know you must be bittersweet, wishing for his happiness, but I also feel like you would like to be in the place of that woman, so sad I'm sobbing ╥﹏╥ Anne-san

    When I think of him I wish all the happiness this world has to offer for him because he truly does deserve it, he was the only good man that I have ever met (so far). And yeah sometimes I do wish to be that woman but at that time when he wanted to marry me I was not ready, and I did not want to take that serious step without being fully committed, it would not have been fair for him. I realize now my own selfishness when I told him I did not want to get married yet but that I still wanted to date. I now realize that I truly loved him, and that I possibly missed my chance at true happiness.

    La pomme de terre July 20, 2021 7:41 am

    I’m sorry! I didn’t mean to make everyone cry, I just wanted to share a bit since this manga brought back all these memories and emotions. But I do admit that I too cried a bit when reading the manga

    Yuki July 20, 2021 2:22 pm
    I’m sorry! I didn’t mean to make everyone cry, I just wanted to share a bit since this manga brought back all these memories and emotions. But I do admit that I too cried a bit when reading the manga La pomme de terre

    Its okay i hope he is well but more over i want you to be happy as well, its all matter of time, age gaps are okay. If some problems arise and one end up with break up then its okay to keep the good memories and move on, so i hope you also find someone good for you

    Anne-san July 21, 2021 1:17 am
    I’m sorry! I didn’t mean to make everyone cry, I just wanted to share a bit since this manga brought back all these memories and emotions. But I do admit that I too cried a bit when reading the manga La pomme de terre

    Goshhh girl don't apologise to me, I may have sounded rude but I felt so frustrated for you, and you " I possibly missed my chance of true happiness" it made my heart ache, I didn't think I would cry for an extranger that is all, you are such a lovely person at least it seems from your words, I'm sure that universe may recompense your kind feelings and let you find your fated person, If you ever do and remember my comment please let us know that you finaly found your happiness.
    As someone who has 27 and I never had a boyfriend for the fear of been left someday, I closed myself, only taking care of my family (mother, and grandmother), I really never have time for myself, I like reading manga, because I feel like they take me to that happy place where everyone find their other half (even if it's fiction. Even gay people have it easier finding a partner, because of my complicated personality and that is too much to say, because usually is most difficult for them), I hope I also someday will find someone I can marry and have a family with, I just hope is not too late for having kids since I would also like to have them. If you ever remember my coment please let me know if you found your happiness so I can be happy for you too. Damn, this suddenly becoming therapy consultant give me goosebumps ╥﹏╥ (〜 ̄△ ̄)〜