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And I think the original poster is talking about the horrible experience in this manga, where the seme was basically out of control and insensitive. Generally, if your partner is weeping and screaming in pain, one needs to stop the hell what they are doing, cuz it's NOT good. And if they are bleeding from their butt, yeah, not a great time to just run and abandon them.
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I congratulate you for not feeling pain for your first time, but if you have studied anything about sex it's common knowledge for people to feel pain depending on either their partner abilities or their own body type. I assure you my knowledge on sex is not minimal and i thank you for caring about my sex life i will have you know there is nothing to worry about that.
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I wasn't disagreeing with the original comment. I plenty agreed, I wrote a comment long prior to this on the disappointing romanticization of the seme at the ending, the terrible lack of preparation, and the insipid uke who claims to have fallen for the seme's 'personality' yet was barely scratched on.
Besides, simply lube and arousal? Obviously that's not going to cut it, but I also agree. People have different approaches and experiences, I suppose other people's amount of preparation wasn't thorough and just rushed.
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And it's because of this "common knowledge" that many people do feel pain. Since they are told by a lot of people that it will hurt, they tend to tense during sex instead of relaxing like they should. Of course if they partner is not experienced and just shoves it in... That's a different story. Sex is supposed to be enjoyable for everyone and if the receiving partner is relaxed and properly prepared then nothing should hurt. At most it should be a short sting. And this should become "common knowledge", not that shit about always feeling pain.
I didnt like it. the seme is a rapist and uke thinks that sex should hurt. SEX SHOULD NOT HURT