I completely agree. I haven't even gotten over the person I was dating a year ago and they're very much still alive, so I can only imagine how long it would take someone to get over the sudden death of their lover and soulmate -__-
Yeah but we still don't know what the fight between Yuuki and Mayufu was about. Maybe something bad happened between the two of them.
I think it depends on the people. They were very young. It's not like they lived many years together as a "married' couple and had many memories as united and building a life together. Plus: young. VERY young.
And you never know when the next 'soulmate" shows up. The one to heal your heart.
I'd want to die with my mate. I don't want to outlive him.
But studies show that a man who has had a happy love/marriage, they tend to marry VERY fast. I guess they can't handle being alone after knowing how great a loving union is.
I'm saying it because they knew each other since forever, they grew up together and being together was just the natural thing for them, so it wasn't like they knew each other in school and then started dating for a while, it was a lot more deeper. But yeah, it depends on the people, this topic is not easy.
Yeah, I get that. But they were still very young and one is dead. I believe life and love should go on. The right person came along after a year. Why should they suffer forever?
I'll also add that he was abandoned. Dying due to illness or old age or accident--which is not voluntary--is different than a partner suiciding. Suicide, to a lover, will feel like betrayal and abandonment. It's a slap in the heart. It's saying, "I'd rather die than stay in this world with you." The pain has to be UNBELIEVABLE.
If someone comes to offer kindness, comfort, and compatibility to ease that pain, I will not judge it. I've never felt that pain, though I have been married a long time to my soul mate. I'd rather die than be in this world without him. I do feel bonded to him and want no one else. BUT....who knows? Maybe if someone comes that heals my heart, I'll want relief of pain and comfort and joy again.
I think it's really hard to continue grieving forever for some. For others, they take solace n their sorrowful faithfulness.
yeah, it could be like that, but for some people it will only hurt to see other people no matter how time has passed, that's ok too. And I know that this manga is not the case but I felt so broken when I read it, and kinda angry, maybe because I have lost a friend due to suicide. Even if it was years ago I know that it will hurt forever (not necessary in an awful way). When that happens to you, you have to learn how to deal with that, there's a really complicated and weird process, and here they kinda just skip that, so I feel kinda uncomfortable because is like nothing happened. Just that, but yeah, when someone can be happy and vivid again after something like that is so heartwarming, is not only ok but good to do that; but I still feeling that something is missing.
and please don't think that I want to see him suffering forever or something, is not like that, is just a matter of tempo in the story
I think that a year is not enough time to get over YOUR FUCKING SOULMATE and move on, he wasn't just his boyfriend, he was his companion of life. This is hurting me so badly... maybe because in my culture we are used to have a long 'bereavement' (I don't know the word for that) or our visions about death are really different.