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Its bad and its good.

sam August 27, 2023 1:23 pm

This was one of my first bls...back then I didn't look deep into this and forgot about the whole story later, i didn't remember a single thing about this and i read it again and these are my current thoughts.

All of them made mistakes.
Nami by trying to love someone who rejected her.
The main character by leading her on and not communicating with her nor the uke.
The uke for not communicating with the mc and not going to therapy.

I dont particularly feel anything for the main couple just bad about nami.
The mc felt abandoned after the uke left him TWICE but the uke was not mentally fine coz...he literally like (unintentionally) MURDERED someone which resulted in that someones DEATH...his actions lead to someones literal death so i understand the turmoil in side him...(this is why people THERAPY is important) and he got redemption by saving nami like...if nami didn't do that the uke had no right to go back to the mc (personality speaking, imo). The mc had responsibility of his family too otherwise he would have prob ran behind the uke and wouldn't have let him go.
The uke ended up worse than the mcs tutor (the 'neighbour') in the end. The 3rd person. Which was so bad to see. Sad to see nami get cheated on multiple time.

But since none of them did any (intentional) crime and got undeserved redemption...i dont hate the story. This is a good read imo. All of them went through 5 stages of grief. And found happiness one way or another. (Still sad for nami but yeah...wish the author showed more of her actual happiness in the end)
Nami did only one mistake while the 2 men did multiple and got tangled up with them which just feels bad. (U can tell by now how much i like her more than the main character lol)

I still find all of them to be relatable.
If i accidentally murdered someone i will feel guilty and cut myself off from people who i love.
if i get abandoned multiple times i will hold the hand of that one person who wont.
If i get rejected by the person who i loved a lot i will still look for opportunities to stay close to them till i see no hope. Not healthy but that's how love is.

Basically moral of the story is: THERAPY and COMMUNICATION is IMPORTANT.

Responses
    Jinwoo & Colton's daughter December 28, 2023 7:50 am

    I agree
    It's a deep and mature story
    To understand this story and the concept behind it, time, experience and a mature worldview are needed