They said they have seen so many brake ups that they can't get into one , and they can't believe that someone would live them , im coming from that sentence , they wouldn't even make a such a comment if it was just a preference , and haven't sayid they are single because of fear ( wich could totally be case) but it's clear they are not choosing to stay single out of safe space.... and as for you i hope you are enjoying your singlnes , it's truly great thing if you treat it correctly , i hope all of you have great lifes single or in relationships
I honestly understand the seme. I've seen so many breakups since my high school days that I couldn't get into any relationships and ended up rejecting them all, even now I don't wanna get married, I just can't see someone loving me for a long time