I went to this phase with my partner. I used to love every little thing about him at that time and as time passed by I slowly felt I was not being heard and when I said something he felt attacked.
There was a big communication gap and every word was like knives that were being thrown at each other and small movements can be interpreted as a rejection.
It was physically and mentally trying. Our relationship became toxic and we hated each other presence. We tried ending it so many times but we felt hostage with each because we knew we were not ready to let go.
Knowing that we can't let go and we can't keep hurting each other. We decided to analyze the root cause of this and then decided to change some things and compromise with one another. I'm glad we did and are happy with each other again. We are now in our 6th year of relationship. (=・ω・=)
I went to this phase with my partner. I used to love every little thing about him at that time and as time passed by I slowly felt I was not being heard and when I said something he felt attacked.
There was a big communication gap and every word was like knives that were being thrown at each other and small movements can be interpreted as a rejection.
It was physically and mentally trying. Our relationship became toxic and we hated each other presence. We tried ending it so many times but we felt hostage with each because we knew we were not ready to let go.
Knowing that we can't let go and we can't keep hurting each other. We decided to analyze the root cause of this and then decided to change some things and compromise with one another. I'm glad we did and are happy with each other again. We are now in our 6th year of relationship. (=・ω・=)