I don't get how some of yall will be so annoyed by his behavior and say "just communicate!" but then also go "but ofc I understand his past trauma!" That's what trauma does to people?? It breaks them?? Of course they'll act in a way that doesn't make sense to an outside viewer because they have their own way of rationalizing their thoughts and actions.
Of course communication is key in every relationship, but we're seeing now why that's so difficult for him! He has trust issues and it's not easy for him to just open up even to those he cares about, not to mention the complex he developed after working piling all the workload onto himself in his past job. He's used to carrying all this burden on his own! His actions hurt others but they also hurt him, and the only way anyone can really get someone like that to open up is to have some patience, which Mr. Mo does have! He's allowing Nuo to open up on his own terms without pressuring him to "just talk". And isn't that incredible of him?? Despite getting hurt by the person he loves, he still continues to offer his heart to them in an effort to work through this issue TOGETHER!!
TL;DR - Hurt people *hurt* people. So please don't go painting my baby Xiao Nuo as some sort of antagonist bcs this is a story about two people overcoming their personal issues with self expression and trust so OFC it's a slow burn. If yall want sth thats quick to the point then you have a plethora of stories to choose from thank you for coming to my TED Talk sound off in the comments.
(Long ass rant so sry but im tired)
I don't get how some of yall will be so annoyed by his behavior and say "just communicate!" but then also go "but ofc I understand his past trauma!" That's what trauma does to people?? It breaks them?? Of course they'll act in a way that doesn't make sense to an outside viewer because they have their own way of rationalizing their thoughts and actions.
Of course communication is key in every relationship, but we're seeing now why that's so difficult for him! He has trust issues and it's not easy for him to just open up even to those he cares about, not to mention the complex he developed after working piling all the workload onto himself in his past job. He's used to carrying all this burden on his own! His actions hurt others but they also hurt him, and the only way anyone can really get someone like that to open up is to have some patience, which Mr. Mo does have! He's allowing Nuo to open up on his own terms without pressuring him to "just talk". And isn't that incredible of him?? Despite getting hurt by the person he loves, he still continues to offer his heart to them in an effort to work through this issue TOGETHER!!
TL;DR - Hurt people *hurt* people. So please don't go painting my baby Xiao Nuo as some sort of antagonist bcs this is a story about two people overcoming their personal issues with self expression and trust so OFC it's a slow burn. If yall want sth thats quick to the point then you have a plethora of stories to choose from thank you for coming to my TED Talk sound off in the comments.