A moment of appreciation for "I can but I won't". Cheating is a choice. Staying faithful is a choice. If your partner cheats, he chose to do so. Stop asking why. He simply didn't love you enough to choose not to hurt you.
Agree. I hated the excuse "I didn't mean it, it just happened". Like, they tripped and accidentally fell on cocks or into vags. Cheaters are immoral assholes who don't deserve happiness.
A moment of appreciation for "I can but I won't". Cheating is a choice. Staying faithful is a choice. If your partner cheats, he chose to do so. Stop asking why. He simply didn't love you enough to choose not to hurt you.