nope. I don't care how sorry. they cheated. only way I forgive is if he got raped. because that is not actually something to be forgiven, It would make me want to embrace them more and help them through it and kill the rapist bitch.
cheating can never be undone. I don't understand people like you who "forgive" it because the dude was so remorseful. good for him he had remorse. that is a nice thing to see for you who is leaving, so you know the guy hopefully will learn from it and treat the woman who comes after you better and never repeat the same fuckery with her and cherish her properly and be loyal.
People like you...already thinking you're better than someone else. People are flawed, I am no different. Hence, I always weigh things and never have a black and white judgement. The story I was talking about was a family of three and the father was assigned far away from his family. He was a great father and husband, kind and supportive, but his job made him work far from them. He missed them so much. There was a co worker who was super nice and manipulative, he got the ML one night. I forgot if he was slightly drunk or what.
Long story short, he quickly realized what he did, even confessed before anything blew up, respected his wife's space to mull over what happened, until the crazy woman went to find him and mess up their lives. ML didn't deny anything and just did what he can to protect them, even when he was gravely victimized by that woman. There's also merit to recognizing one's effort on apologizing, instead of defining one's entire being with their one flaw/mishap.
Better? How is that better? Where did I say I am better than you? Opinions are opinions. You are a seperate entity from myself. Live apparently in a completely different world than mine. So when someone says I cannot understand you. It means exactly that. I cannot sympathise you because I don’t get it. If you want you can explain so I can try understand this other kind of human that is so different from me, or you can not. It also doesn’t mean someone ends up wanting to understand what they don’t understand. I fall in the middle. I know myself so I know this isn’t for me. I cannot do that. Notice I say I. This is my body and my life. I don’t care what you say and if you judge me or call me names ( you didn’t, but if you did idgaf). Is just your opinion. I am the only one that can judge myself. And didn’t you read the part where I said if it was forced on him that that’s different? I dunno. I am the kind that tries to distinguish truth. I want the cold hard bold truth. No “ah he loved you, he regrets it, he was honest, he this that”. If he was molested by her when he was drunk that is assault and not cheating. But even if he cheated and you decide you can forgive such a person, l then that’s you! Is fine. Am not judging you. I just don’t understand you is all.
Too triggered, jeez. You could've explained what you wanted in fewer sentences.
I can't remember how drunk ML was when that one night he finally fell to her trap happened but he immediately recognized he was wrong.
The worst thing about cheating is entitlement. Cheaters are so entitled that they can have relationships with others while supposedly committed with only one person. Worse, they even gaslight just to justify and confuse others. ML never showed any of that. And that's worth recognizing. Can't remember the title of that manga but it was a good read, albeit having insufferable antagonists. The ML was too kind that it became his flaw but overcame it by sticking and fighting for his wife's forgiveness while FL learned to be strong and resilient for her family.
I know a lot are so quick to curse at cheating, but I had this one manga that I was fine forgiving the guy/husband because he was truly sorry, it was genuine and had no ounce of arrogance for what he did. It was truly a slip up out of loneliness and cunningness of the crazy coworker.
This one though, Woojin, the classic cheater who thinks they can get away with anything and is arrogant for what they did. Stalking and all I’m the pretense of asking for forgiveness all for the sake of not losing what they were used to. He fucked up on the very first call he was confronted to.