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I just want to express myself here. tomorrow is my last day at my current job. I'm on no...

Ueyo November 30, 2023 1:41 pm

I just want to express myself here. tomorrow is my last day at my current job. I'm on notice and for a week I've noticed a very different vibe in the office. like negative energy. for information, I have only been working for 4 months and i quit because work environment is very stressful and toxic. where my leader is very unreliable and likes to tell people to do his work. I work as marketing and sales, and there are only 3 people in this department. so myself, my senior marketing and my manager/leader. I trust my seniors alot, and I always complain to he about my uncomfortable situation working with all these conditions. My co-worker is very nice but since I showed that I want to quit, he treats me more passive aggressively. he made me feel very uncomfortable. so yesterday I felt my instinct saying there would be something those two will would talk about. so I left the office for a while in 30 minutes and I didn't bring my phone. I put the voice recording mode. today I listened back to the voice recording and I found my senior cursing me behind my back. he said i just want a job that is easy and very slow to work. he also condemned my actions of stopping work. he also said that I chose a new job far away from home and with my unlicensed(driver license ) condition it will only be difficult and I will not be long with the new job. as information I am in the process of doing the license. He also said that I only talk big but don't even do the job properly. I admit that I am a slow learner. I am taught by only one person here, which is my senior, but he is very busy, sometimes he will teach me halfway and I am increasingly unable to understand the work flow. My leader/manager really doesn't know the state of the work flow, even the system we use, he doesn't know how it operates. and some of my points on why I stopped were twisted a lot by them, I was very angry. i like to correct and want to rage at them. should i confront them and correct some point or i just let them go.

It wrong for me to choose a better environment? Better for my mental health. I just dont know what to do for this situation. Im controlling my anger issue here

Responses
    hanakiss November 30, 2023 1:51 pm

    Ignore it and let it go. Confronting will risk your own professional integrity. Ensure you finish off all items you are responsible for and report it in to your manager and team leader. Dont record or assume anything further for your own mental health while you finish off notice. Leave with a smile on your face and think that it will be all onwards and upwards. Finally, once you have left, dont forget to also take time to self reflect on what you could have possibly done wrong or could done better, and learn and adapt from it to do better in your next job.

    No_more_drty_deeds November 30, 2023 2:11 pm

    I understand your frustrations, but confronting them and revealing that you recorded them (which in most cases is illegal) is basically asking for a death sentence for your career. I know it feels unfair, but it will do you no good. You can however use places like Glassdoor to talk about your working environment and give feedback that way.

    mushvrooooom November 30, 2023 3:18 pm

    First off all, I'm so glad you're leaving that shitty place!! I think it's completely fine to leave a place of you think the environment is stressful for you. Put your mental health first!!
    Like others pointed out, confronting them wouldn't be a great idea. So let go, and do well in your new job and be happy.

    That Fujoshi November 30, 2023 4:50 pm

    Don't throw stones at others when you live in a glasshouse yourself. Real life isn't a manga and confrontation of such type of behaviour most of thectime lead to negative result as your action against them ends up being a catalyst in downfall of your career. But if you want to talk more about it, I'm here. I'll listen. :)