You could try to talk about her about your frustrations, and maybe ask her how she feels about this whole thing? Are you upset about not being able to be affectionate with ur lover openly, or is it that you don’t like being secretive/ you feel like you are a secret for your lover? Are her parents strict or why would you have to sneak out, are they against relationships?
i tried she said she's sorry that she couldn't do anything about it and yes her parents is like super strict and im sure they would be against our rs even tho we're already both in legal age
i just want to do what normal couples do
dunno what to do anymore ive been with my lover for 6 months and I've known her for 2years and a half and we still can't go out (like go on dates in different places) because of her parents am i a bad person for telling her to sneak out with me her parents and friends doesn't know that we are in a rs but im fine with that i just wanna spend time with her idk what to do at this point should i just let it be and wait til we're both independent? i don't have anyone to talk to and i don't want to tell my friends about this ╥﹏╥ sorry for ranting hahshfhshhdhs