He didn't come to find Jooin becaus eof his past. He had no idea what he was remembering was real until he met Jooin. Him meeting Jooin was just coincidence. The author confirm it themselves via twt. I agree with the last part. That's why Jooin wanted Cain to go back, Jooin thought it was too much for Cain cut off his family just for him
true, hes not some stalker who tracked jooin down, he probably jhst was inspired by his dream and went to korea and he happened to meet jooin on accident, making it literally like destiny, which is sweet imo.
all the feelings of it came later when he really got to know jooin, you van see the whole process lol.
at first hes kind of impressed by the whole thing maybe being true and wants to befriend the guy
then he sees how swlfless and kind he is and as they spend more time together hes starting to develop real feelings.
so that is when he starts pursuing jooin romantically, things happen and by then ye probably spent a little too muct time in korea and hets called back to the states
and supposedly thats when he tells his family about the whole oast life thing being true and how he found his person etc etc
yall know the rest. just because he didnt emotionally tormented jooiin it doesnt mean his feelings can't be complex and genuine
I'm sorry but even if people argue that Cain is better because he's non-toxic, his whole origin story is that he came to find Jooin because he was his dog in his past life...which let's face it, is super weird. Also doesn't sound like an entirely healthy, equal relationship either if he was willing to cut off his entire family just for Jooin who didn't even know him.