Hope you enjoy!
Unromantic is one suggestion!
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/torokeru_you_ni/
Personally, one of my absolute favorites! This one has to do more with emotional strength. The person who bottoms isn't dealing with the top's stupidity.
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/ronald_no_yabou/
(Military, it takes quite a while but the person who bottoms/the commander, is definitely stronger than the MC..I like it because even though it has that vintage feel, the content was a little ahead of its time in avoiding certain tropes).
https://www.mangago.me/home/mangalist/2460859/?filter=&page=6
(Here's a list! I would direct you to refer to pages 4-8 for fluffier stories as I noticed pages 1-3 contained many stories with dark content (which i added trigger warnings for, of course in my list). Any stories with any dark or triggering themes are marked so you may avoid them!)

pls recommend me a bl that has a strong uke. thank uu