I am glad her sister and her husband aren't pressuring her to have a baby. I say this as a woman who really wants children herself. There are people who know, people who think they know, people on the fence, and people feel they need, on either direction. By taking the time to think about it, Yeni is checking if she won't be a disappointment to herself and those around her.
Will she regret not having one? Will she be angry at herself if she ends up having that child feel the same as she did growing up? She knows her husband loves her either way but will she be able to look into his face when they are old and know she made the right choice for them? This time they are giving her is allowing her to make the decision that is right for her and allowing her to escape the pressure she feels around her in her own home.
I am glad her sister and her husband aren't pressuring her to have a baby. I say this as a woman who really wants children herself. There are people who know, people who think they know, people on the fence, and people feel they need, on either direction. By taking the time to think about it, Yeni is checking if she won't be a disappointment to herself and those around her.
Will she regret not having one? Will she be angry at herself if she ends up having that child feel the same as she did growing up? She knows her husband loves her either way but will she be able to look into his face when they are old and know she made the right choice for them? This time they are giving her is allowing her to make the decision that is right for her and allowing her to escape the pressure she feels around her in her own home.