it won't last if only one side did their part, thus both sides 'needs' to show it -the willingness, the tolerance, the acceptance, the change, the action, anything for their other half... when something goes wrong in relationship, it means both sides were at fault.
I mean, every person has their own shares of burden in life, if they didn't share it, the vast majority of people won't know what's wrong with you nor tried to understand you, So don't blame others when they misunderstood. true... this only the ideal case, for people can't really put their foot in other's shoes nor willing to abide other's command to a T. Still, towards your significant half, i believe it's important to reach out, don't just wait upon the others.
As an involved party, perhaps the person might bear it no minds, however as an observer (and a collateral IRL), I found that it was plenty exhausting physically and mentally, when the other party always took passive stance and just take things for granted,
Occasional teasing/guiding/goading/silent treatment is okay, but testing the water every time, keep pushing and pulling perpetually, manipulating our thought, actions, and habit, playing with our tolerance, never willing to compromise? just NO
MC is too impatient, while ML is a coward. I don't blame them, for their situations are only known to their own selves and rather hard for others to believe after all.
I can only say, love is a two-way relationship.
it won't last if only one side did their part, thus both sides 'needs' to show it -the willingness, the tolerance, the acceptance, the change, the action, anything for their other half... when something goes wrong in relationship, it means both sides were at fault.
I mean, every person has their own shares of burden in life, if they didn't share it, the vast majority of people won't know what's wrong with you nor tried to understand you, So don't blame others when they misunderstood.
true... this only the ideal case, for people can't really put their foot in other's shoes nor willing to abide other's command to a T. Still, towards your significant half, i believe it's important to reach out, don't just wait upon the others.
As an involved party, perhaps the person might bear it no minds, however as an observer (and a collateral IRL), I found that it was plenty exhausting physically and mentally, when the other party always took passive stance and just take things for granted,
Occasional teasing/guiding/goading/silent treatment is okay, but testing the water every time, keep pushing and pulling perpetually, manipulating our thought, actions, and habit, playing with our tolerance, never willing to compromise? just NO
MC is too impatient, while ML is a coward. I don't blame them, for their situations are only known to their own selves and rather hard for others to believe after all.