hi

i think i should specify that yes we used protection
... it may have been like a month expired.....
but still
we used condom
and he didnt cum inside
so
:|

also other factors to consider:
my schedules have been messed up a lot in the past month or 2
first i got a boyfriend and ended up waking up an hour earlier each day + missing breakfast so there was a big shift in my eating and sleeping schedules

and also a couple weeks ago winter break started which means a time zone shift cuz im travelling as well as irregular sleeping schedule and also eating WAYYYY too much or skipping meals at times

and im thinking the change in my cycle could be due to this

also i dont rly keep track of my periods but i think my previous one came earlier than usual so if i count that as an outlier and disregard it then i think it'd be feasible for my period not to have come yet and to be just around the corner

both me and my partner are worried as fck tho still

i think it's fine if u still got your monthly period
my period never exactly 30 days, maybe it's one week earlier or later (depends if you work out too much it would be earlier)

You don't have much information to go off, but if it eases you in anyway; it's possible that your emotional roller coaster, the worry, will cause your body to reschedule or skip due to the emotional stress you're putting on yourself.

Don't stress about it. It's normal for your period to be off when you first start having sex. Stressing about it also postpones your period. But hey, you just got laid good for you! (๑•ㅂ•)و✧

It'll be really unlikely since you both had protection and he pulled out before the end deed. I also agree with the previous people, but also if you're really worried maybe wait another week to week and a half and then take a pregnancy test. Put it in a plastic bag after you find out and throw it out in an empty public restroom if you're worried about someone finding it.

One time I didn't have my period for 3 months. I definitely wasn't pregnant, unless it was the second coming of Jesus Christ. Didn't went to the doctor, so I don't know the reason why, but may be due to hormonal/dietary issues.

I think an expired condom gets less stretchy and breaks easier or smthn

I'm sorry that I'm not contributing to the help, but I don't know the answer and I'm awfully curious about something. I'm still a virgin myself, but since you had your first time having sex, can I ask something kind of personal?

Does sex hurt the first time for you?

A lot of my friends said sex didn't hurt the first time, but my other friends say it does and the internet and yaoi manga says it does.

i heard some ppl say it hurts but it rly depends on the person
different ppl have different bodies :P
for me it didnt hurt much


also
yaoi is anal sex
yes that would hurt

ye it may have broken the first time but we stopped immediately after and switched to another one which didnt break

right so
uh
I am a boarder
I live at my school
and I would have a hard time of finding an empty public restroom
i could probably try to throw it out in a normal trashcan somewhere tho and hope no one finds it

lol the tests themselves are gonna arrive in another week and a half so i guess i will be able to know for certain then

i havent gotten my period this month yet
last month it was around the 20th or 22nd or smth but here it is already the 30th

yeah i was considering this factor (￣∇￣")
its ironic how worrying about how late it is could put it off even further

I'm worried but I'm not stressing over it 24/7 and I've already somewhat discussed plans with my partner



yeah also i think i'd be worrying less if i were an adult... but..... im still in my early teens and i am supposed to be a good student attending a highclass school and this would like completely ruin my future if anyone found out but like whatever ╮(￣▽￣)╭

Okay, I'm relieved to hear that (￣∇￣")