I think everyone is hating on the Mom too much that I feel bad for her. She has her fair share of suffering too and as the old saying goes, when your leg is hurt, you tend to neglect someone else’s pain. Obviously, that’s no excuse to hurt someone else but it’s understandable why she couldn’t become the ideal mother for him. To be fair, there are so many worse parents in this world and it’s really not uncommon for Asian parents to have expectations for their children. What I’m saying is the Mom is just human after all, let’s just be patient and allow her some time to learn to become become a better parent for Ian because I can see she does genuinely cares for him at the end of the day. Also, everyone talks about how much Ian sacrifices for his Mom, but no one talks about how his Mom tries her best for his sake too, though in a different way.
I think everyone is hating on the Mom too much that I feel bad for her. She has her fair share of suffering too and as the old saying goes, when your leg is hurt, you tend to neglect someone else’s pain. Obviously, that’s no excuse to hurt someone else but it’s understandable why she couldn’t become the ideal mother for him. To be fair, there are so many worse parents in this world and it’s really not uncommon for Asian parents to have expectations for their children. What I’m saying is the Mom is just human after all, let’s just be patient and allow her some time to learn to become become a better parent for Ian because I can see she does genuinely cares for him at the end of the day. Also, everyone talks about how much Ian sacrifices for his Mom, but no one talks about how his Mom tries her best for his sake too, though in a different way.