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I'm glad I'm not alone and I agree wholeheartedly about everything you said.
Honestly if someone were to ask me who I find more pitiful between the two of them I'd personally say Jaeha in a heartbeat. He's not a saint either ofc but he's at least aware he's not the best. I find it kinda sad people hate him so much and praise Eunho to the skies.
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Lover Boy just reached the wrong people :(
They all are throwing a fit and shitting on the writing because they don't get to make the characters as 1 dimensionally flat as possible. And this is most likely cuz being morally righteous is the only character archetype they'll accept. It's really ironic how such human qualities get so much hate.
The reason why Eunho doesn't get shit is because he's portrayed to be the desperate and pitiful 'I'll love you and chase you to the ends of eternity' type when all along he's actually never considered Jaeha's circumstances. What makes it worse is because even Eunho actually acknowledges this at the end of the comic and really feels shitty for not understanding Jaeha and yet, everyone is absolving Eunho of that fault acting as if he did nothing.
It's infuriating really
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Yeah, I think so as well. I also think a lot of these people might be really young and lack the perspective and experience to understand what's really going on tbh. But I can't know for sure.
The truth is people all mess up and hurt each other and we all have trauma and pain. And if there is no understanding and forgiveness for those things, the world is going to be a very difficult place to live in. I think that's also the reason this comment section makes me so sad tbh.
Yeah, I know exactly what you mean and it really sucks. I also feel like a lot of people don't understand that just because you love someone doesn't mean they have to love you back or that they're a demon if they don't or if they reject you because they don't think it's the right relationship for them. Loving someone also really doesn't mean you get a free pass for breaking boundaries over and over.
Eunho is deeply selfish to me.
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The way you're coming at me for this it sounds like you've got your mind set already but in case you don't: It's therapeutic to me because real life is messy and it helps me work through my own trauma. Fictional conflict is a more gentle way of easing myself into thinking about things that otherwise are very infected and uncomfortable.
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The chaos and internal conflicts of the characters are as relatable as characters can get because honestly life is really unfair and sometimes that unfairness scars you and affects you for the rest of your life. Maybe not for you but to see characters who learn to grow along with their scars, I personally also find it extremely therapeutic
I'm just gonna say, no one is a saint in this story. And that is even from before Eunho started using sex to get back at Jaeha post breakup timeskip.
A lovestruck kid who bulldozes his way into a situationship with a deeply traumatised person without being prepared for what that entails? It's a recipe for disaster.
I personally actually really like this story. It's emotional, messy, and just... very human. And while it for sure raises some people's blood pressure, I actually find it somewhat therapeutic.