I also had a partner for 13 years, who cheated on me and left, is it my fault too? There was a clear lack of communication in their relationship, but that is not on just one party, it is on both sides. Regardless, there is never any excuse for cheating, so the woman is in the wrong in this case. And I never spent ages crying over a cheater too, if anything, there is more anger after the initial shock. If my ex wasn't 2000kms away now, there would be an even bigger issue on his end, as I would have taken my anger out on him if he were any closer. He is just lucky I didn't find out/confirm about the cheating factor until after I moved. If anything the MC is very magnanimous toward his ex.
Oh you're 100% right! I'm not supporting cheaters lmao! My comment is about using this cheating gf trope all the time by the male authors for their male mc, so they slowly upgrade his partner to a younger, prettier one. U get!?
No makes sense, I also kinda ended up ranting because of my ex, he hid the cheating until after I moved away because when I started with him, I guaranteed that if I ever caught him cheating, I would cut (it) off so he wouldn't be able to cheat on anyone else (cause I would leave his @ss, but the next person shouldn't have to deal with it either).... See, I am still ranting. Sorry (￣∇￣")
It's k ╮(￣▽￣)╭
Thanks, lmao. I promise not to rant this time, so sending good vibes your way! <3 (づ￣ ³￣)づ
This background story is so stereotypical & annoying as fuck! The male mc will be pathetic & a loser & suddenly get a system for level up!
My irritation:
1. I can totally guess that the author is male. Who dates for 10 years without even discussing long-term plans or even having married at that point. Its just an asshole behaviour. #－.－) Women have different needs! Normally men like this will end up alone in reality as they are too selfish to empathise with the needs of their partner.
2. And framing the gf as the villian, so the male mc can be motivated from the dumping to level up is just yikes! Where was your ambition & motivation before? You opened your own shop, then what about your partner? No context given.
3. Also losing a gf of 10 years, he didn't seem upset by it at all. Looks like we're being geared up for a younger, hotter female down the line. (⊙…⊙ )
Let's see what the rest of the story will give me