no it wasn't lol the chapter's events happen after joe's nightmare. joe and ian slept together and that's when joe remembers how ian cancelled on him on christmas, then it shows a flashback of tj telling ian not to come to the funeral, then present day ian goes to the funeral, has sex in the car. the car sex is not a flashback bro how did you come to that conclusion the events so far are in chronological order.
She did miss the chronological order but she made a great point. Their sex scenes were indeed skipped over. That's her point. She was talking about the skipped sex scenes which I myself find strange cause you don't know when or how it actually happened. We don't know why it was skipped considering there's not many intimate scenes between Jo and Ian. As far as we can remember there's only two that we have seen ~
The big revelation is we don't what exactly happened between those two moments. It's actually appreciable that someone pointed out this. The jumping between these chapters is very strange. At first you saw Ian at the hospital then the next moment you saw him with Jo in a bed. That's why the op assume it could have been skipped for a purpose. Everything in this story has a purpose and people are allowed to talk about it yk.

Am I the only one who noticed that the sex scene between Joseph and Ian was skipped in chapter 39? It took place after Jason's funeral meaning it was after TJ's and Ian's sex in the car. We only saw Joseph and Ian having sex two times so I find it weird the third one was skipped. It must have a purpose for it to be skipped.