Is he really doing it because he's taking responsibility and loves the little brother or is he doing it to ease his own guilt? Which is selfish because you let the older brother take care of him for most of his life and then you just show up and take him back. Like no it doesn't work like that. At this point the older brother basically is the parent/guardian, so what gives YOU the right to just come in and ruin their relationship. Or at least if you do take him, give them communication and also compensation for the older brother because he essentially became your son's parental figure and raised him for all his life. Meanwhile struggling himself as well. And he didn't even consider the fact that when he left, what would have become of his son, would he be dead or would he be up for adoption?? Just sayin (〜￣△￣)〜.
Is he really doing it because he's taking responsibility and loves the little brother or is he doing it to ease his own guilt? Which is selfish because you let the older brother take care of him for most of his life and then you just show up and take him back. Like no it doesn't work like that. At this point the older brother basically is the parent/guardian, so what gives YOU the right to just come in and ruin their relationship. Or at least if you do take him, give them communication and also compensation for the older brother because he essentially became your son's parental figure and raised him for all his life. Meanwhile struggling himself as well. And he didn't even consider the fact that when he left, what would have become of his son, would he be dead or would he be up for adoption?? Just sayin (〜￣△￣)〜.