What does the fox say ending is so misunderstood by 99% of readers. The majority of readers don't realize where Sumin's choices came from.
I always thought the ending was so boring and lame and has no beauty in it, since Sungji and Sumin relationship is so shallow and doesn't feel romantic at all. Until I finally found the reason why Sumin refused to be in a Romantic relationship with Seju again. I have always known till the very end that Sumin has always loved Seju the most, but I just couldn't find the answer why she didn't try again with her. I'm glad I finally found the answer and I don't see the ending as boring as before, bcs it has a beauty in it bcs even Sumin's choice to run away from Seju and be with Sungji or any other girl has something to do with Sumin loving Seju the most.
Sumin's choice wasn't about who is the girl she loves the most but about who is the girl that doesn't make her feel vulnerable. Sumin chose to be with the girl who doesn't make her feel vulnerable.
I remember when it was revealed that Sumin went through 31 breaking up, I was like, is she dumb? Why would she go through 31 hearth breaks when she can simply give Seju one chance? But then I realized that those 31 breaking up weren't really a hearth break bcs she never genuinely loved those girls including Sungji. The only time that she went through a hearth break is with Seju bcs she truly loved Seju.
The fact that Sumin chose to be with a relationship again with Sungji even when Sungji left her twice is proof that Sumin isn't fearing breaking up with her again and again bcs she doesn't really get hurt, bcs it has been shown several times that Sumin doesn't genuinely love Sungji, but she sees her as an opportunity to escape Seju. Seju who the thought of still loving her is scary to her.
Sumin would rather go through 100 breaking up with different girls or she would even go through 100 breaking up with Sungji than going through one more break up with Seju. Bcs as she said it herself, she hated how much she loved Seju bcs it ruined her life.
Sumin not wanting to be in a romantic relationship with Seju again has nothing to do with the fact that she can't forgive Seju for sleeping with a man or bcs she doesn't love Seju enough. Sumin can't be in a relationship with Seju again bcs she's fearing a break up, she's fearing to get hurt again by Seju, she's traumatized, it's a matter of trust, the trust is broken, no matter how much she loves Seju she can't be with her again bcs she doesn't want to go through another break up with the person she loves earnestly, bcs it's gonna ruin her life again.
Sungji or any other girl are incapable of ruining Sumin's life, even if they would do the same mistake which is cheating. Proof is her relationship with redhead girl, Redhead girl was two timing Sumin with a man, she had a fiancé while being in a relationship with Sumin. Redhead girl fiance even beat Sumin up for sleeping with redhead girl, but when Sumin found out that redhead girl was sleeping with a man all this time, Sumin was calm and even asked red head girl to break up with her fiance, and act as if nothing has happened. Can I say Sumin loves redhead girl more than Seju, so she was willing to forgive her? Nope, absolutely not. The way Sumin started to act after her relationship with Seju, is more of desperation than love. She doesn't act out of love but she acts out of desperation.
The problem why she has never forgave Seju was bcs it was Seju herself. Seju was a person she genuinely loved and loved earnestly. She loved Seju with all of her heart, so when Seju made a mistake, that ruined her completely and traumatized her, that she's too afraid to go through another break up with Seju, she can't trust her anymore.
Sumin learnt one lesson from her relationship with Seju which is, to never be vulnerable in a relationship. Bcs it's gonna ruin her.
That's why she chose to be with any girl instead of giving Seju another chance. Bcs Seju always made her feel vulnerable, even after their break up Seju still makes her feel so vulnerable, that's why all of her relationships failed and she kept coming back to seju6, her relationship with Sungji finally succeeded when Seju left.
In conclusion Sumin's choice to be with Sungji instead of giving Seju another chance has nothing to do with Sumin loving Sungji more. She chose Sungji bcs Sungji doesn't make her feel vulnerable, Sungji is incapable of ruining Sumin's life even if she makes a mistake bcs Sumin will never love her as much as she loved Seju. Sumin would rather go through 100 breaking up with Sungji or any other girl rather than going through one more break up with Seju. Bcs the only girl who she genuinely loves and earnestly loved is Seju only. After her breaking up with Seju she has never been capable of loving in the same way.
I hope I explained the ending well regarding Sumin's choices, bcs the majority of readers misunderstood Sumin's character.
What does the fox say ending is so misunderstood by 99% of readers. The majority of readers don't realize where Sumin's choices came from.
I always thought the ending was so boring and lame and has no beauty in it, since Sungji and Sumin relationship is so shallow and doesn't feel romantic at all. Until I finally found the reason why Sumin refused to be in a Romantic relationship with Seju again. I have always known till the very end that Sumin has always loved Seju the most, but I just couldn't find the answer why she didn't try again with her. I'm glad I finally found the answer and I don't see the ending as boring as before, bcs it has a beauty in it bcs even Sumin's choice to run away from Seju and be with Sungji or any other girl has something to do with Sumin loving Seju the most.
Sumin's choice wasn't about who is the girl she loves the most but about who is the girl that doesn't make her feel vulnerable. Sumin chose to be with the girl who doesn't make her feel vulnerable.
I remember when it was revealed that Sumin went through 31 breaking up, I was like, is she dumb? Why would she go through 31 hearth breaks when she can simply give Seju one chance? But then I realized that those 31 breaking up weren't really a hearth break bcs she never genuinely loved those girls including Sungji. The only time that she went through a hearth break is with Seju bcs she truly loved Seju.
The fact that Sumin chose to be with a relationship again with Sungji even when Sungji left her twice is proof that Sumin isn't fearing breaking up with her again and again bcs she doesn't really get hurt, bcs it has been shown several times that Sumin doesn't genuinely love Sungji, but she sees her as an opportunity to escape Seju. Seju who the thought of still loving her is scary to her.
Sumin would rather go through 100 breaking up with different girls or she would even go through 100 breaking up with Sungji than going through one more break up with Seju. Bcs as she said it herself, she hated how much she loved Seju bcs it ruined her life.
Sumin not wanting to be in a romantic relationship with Seju again has nothing to do with the fact that she can't forgive Seju for sleeping with a man or bcs she doesn't love Seju enough. Sumin can't be in a relationship with Seju again bcs she's fearing a break up, she's fearing to get hurt again by Seju, she's traumatized, it's a matter of trust, the trust is broken, no matter how much she loves Seju she can't be with her again bcs she doesn't want to go through another break up with the person she loves earnestly, bcs it's gonna ruin her life again.
Sungji or any other girl are incapable of ruining Sumin's life, even if they would do the same mistake which is cheating. Proof is her relationship with redhead girl, Redhead girl was two timing Sumin with a man, she had a fiancé while being in a relationship with Sumin. Redhead girl fiance even beat Sumin up for sleeping with redhead girl, but when Sumin found out that redhead girl was sleeping with a man all this time, Sumin was calm and even asked red head girl to break up with her fiance, and act as if nothing has happened.
Can I say Sumin loves redhead girl more than Seju, so she was willing to forgive her? Nope, absolutely not. The way Sumin started to act after her relationship with Seju, is more of desperation than love. She doesn't act out of love but she acts out of desperation.
The problem why she has never forgave Seju was bcs it was Seju herself. Seju was a person she genuinely loved and loved earnestly. She loved Seju with all of her heart, so when Seju made a mistake, that ruined her completely and traumatized her, that she's too afraid to go through another break up with Seju, she can't trust her anymore.
Sumin learnt one lesson from her relationship with Seju which is, to never be vulnerable in a relationship. Bcs it's gonna ruin her.
That's why she chose to be with any girl instead of giving Seju another chance. Bcs Seju always made her feel vulnerable, even after their break up Seju still makes her feel so vulnerable, that's why all of her relationships failed and she kept coming back to seju6, her relationship with Sungji finally succeeded when Seju left.
In conclusion Sumin's choice to be with Sungji instead of giving Seju another chance has nothing to do with Sumin loving Sungji more. She chose Sungji bcs Sungji doesn't make her feel vulnerable, Sungji is incapable of ruining Sumin's life even if she makes a mistake bcs Sumin will never love her as much as she loved Seju. Sumin would rather go through 100 breaking up with Sungji or any other girl rather than going through one more break up with Seju. Bcs the only girl who she genuinely loves and earnestly loved is Seju only. After her breaking up with Seju she has never been capable of loving in the same way.
I hope I explained the ending well regarding Sumin's choices, bcs the majority of readers misunderstood Sumin's character.