im shook as hell

"Letting."
Sweetie, do you not know the difference between consent and rape?

If someone is "letting" another fuck them, it's not rape.

So, he's, in fact, not "letting" them have sex.
He's being raped, which means against his consent and choice.

I know it's easy to victim blame because we get pissed off at seeing helplessness, but it's the rapists that are doing the act; not the victim.

There is no "letting."