I wonder if it can be called ‘cheating’ when he was upfront about his affair the whole time. But yea…still don’t like it.
Especially the public display of physical and verbal domestic violence.
I would consider it cheating bc uke found out he was having sex with someone else and confronted to him about it, after which he admitted it. That’s not being upfront, and there was no negotiating or asking for consent from the uke. Imo it’s just another form of abuse. Open relationships are completely different.
By upfront I meant he wasn’t trying to hide it nor did he lie to keep the cover.
But yea In any case I don’t like it. And yea it can be seen as abuse because ultimately he wasn’t being treat fairly or equally. He was forced into the relation despite his own feelings at the time. They were put in the circumstances that he couldn’t refuse the marriage anyway. Considering all that the seme never even intended to honour the marriage is just absurd.
FR he pissed me off so badlike ur not patient, ur being emotionally abused
Wish I could like a comment. I don’t even blame uke at all. He’s a victim ): of both his circumstances and his biology. I wanted better for him he is such a sweetheart it would have been karma if he fell in love with seme’s brother who clearly had a thing for him.
Yea I was rooting for the brother too!
Hate the side couple he cheated for years!!