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I'm the same, you nailed the explanation .
It's so difficult to get to know someone with that personality.
I need someone like seme who pushes me and doesn't give up easily. But that's soooo rare esp. at my age
Agreed, and also high-five! I hope we somehow find a way to get around this personality because it's genuinely frustrating.
I've never said this before in any BL I've ever read, but the glasses guys is just like me fr-fr.
Being the avoidant type but also craving affection and human touch is very annoying, especially when you're the type to be extreme about it. Terrified of someone leaving you so you leave them first to not get hurt. And when you do settle with somebody, you keep everything to yourself because again, you don't want them to leave you. You eagerly help them, but you never let them help you.
You're lonely but your mind convinces you being alone is better than doing something wrong to someone you hold dear. Because if you do, you're the problem and to you, that's fate worst than death. The easiest way to never have that issue is to have nobody at all. It's so counterproductive but that's how your brain is wired.
I'm happy he got his happy ending, he deserves the princess treatment.