yooo frll!! finally someone said this >< No cuz I'm from southeast asia and when I tell you there will be no discussion or bribery happening if you throw a tantrum especially if it's in public! Parents will literally just leave you behind or pretend you're someone else's kid if you pull a stunt like that 0 tolerance on a kids' random bs + you'll get humiliated so bad you'll never want to repeat an act like that again
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Exactly! I'm asian too so I totally get it. Our parents ain't got no time to deal with tantrums. Life is busy. Not only what Minato did is dangerous, imagine the money for all of this if your family is poor...The hospital fee, medication fee and FOOD WASTE. Man, that kid will have the consequences instill into his brain. Tough love but I gotta admit kids that get disciplined do behave better than those don't. At least it is from my observation with families around where I live.
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omg i just saw this today ! so sorry for late reply >~<
Anyway, I guess this is just our realistic take with one of the scenes based off of our own experiences and perspective kinda cool ☜(ﾟヮﾟ☜) But alas the serie itself is bound to be fictional and though I admit that any physical, mental, verbal, or any type of abuse towards children are not necessarily an acceptable shortcut for discipline cuz there are literally other ways to do this like maybe start with a proper communication? The generational trauma has to end with the new gen of parents somehow. I guess that was how the artist conveyed it for us :,)
ps.i don't think i made sense lmaoo it's frickin midnight here my brain cells are not brain celling (☞ﾟヮﾟ)☞
Don't worry I understand you lol. I guess I'm the lucky one that don't have bad experiences with my mom whipping my asses. But I know that there are other bad parents out there that uses this discipline method as an excuse to take it (usually their own issues) out on their childs and that's horrible. I think that's why the "spare the rod, spoil the child" approach get such a bad name nowadays.
But I do believe that a hit that came from love feel different from a hit that is out of rage. So I still don't think that physical punishment is 100% wrong, it just have to be done in right ways as the last resort when nothing else works. Also not everyone is fit to be a parent but that's a whole different topic for another day (⊙×⊙ )
Thank you for sharing your view. I really appreciate it!
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Man if it was in my household, Minato wouldn't get off so easily. My mom ain't gonna let it slide just like that. This is why I can't be a parent cause sh*t like this trigger my anger issue immediately (╯°Д °)╯╧╧