The “uke” doesn’t live for the male lead. He is his own person and gets to decide how to live his life. That’s what you bl readers lack is that each character lives for themselves, and even if they think for their lover at the same time they think of selfish reasons to want to be together
So, now I can't express my opinion here? In a healthy relationship, you should consider your partner's feelings, and obviously, you are your own person. Have you read both books? He was his childhood friend. OBVIOUSLY, they were together the whole time. How did that become selfish? You generalizing every BL story like that means that you haven't read enough manga with different relationship dynamics, bub. Talk more, Mr. Know-it-all.
The ukes decision was very abrupt to be honest. It made me sympathetic with semes anger, also made me feel that uke was very selfish.