Ummm is it this one?
I don't remember about seme being dubconned but your description made me think of this one
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/incorrigible/
not sure if i recall any dubcon in this (i have no time to reread rn) but the curly blonde haired uke and small jock seme seem kinda familiar? is it this one?
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/dekoboko_sugar_days/
i only remember it as a yaoi manga with high achool Studnets and the bottom i think was some nerdy with curly blonde hair and he was like all cute and innocent but actually dominant and he like dubconned the seme by riding him i think the seme was like a jock idk. uke is small and has significant size gap with seme