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Exactly what I'm talking about.... Communication is key
Nah I agree. Like wdym the ML just brushed off the fact that his bff used FL as the bff's girlfriend. And then FL was all like "Oh I'm so self centered for thinking that MY BOYFRIEND would care" LIKE WTF IS GOING ON
ML does not have a healthy boyfriend behaviour because of his own trauma. What I don't like here is that the FL acts as if it is acceptable for someone to behave with so little regard towards one's feeling. It's is not cute when a guy can't express love, give real compliments or when he can't face his own emotions and when he doesn't try his best to improve. The reason we tolerate this story is because this is so fucking common in real life. I'm kinda pissed ! Why does the author want us to believe that unconditionnal love is the only solution. Honnestly, unconditionnal love only works when both parties want to make the efforts. One person saying, don't change, don't try to be someone you are not when taking about public humiliation is not going to help us women in real life. BOTH PARTIES NEED TO WORK ON PROGRESS. The woman should not be the only one making efforts to adapt here ! (╬￣皿￣)凸 If you act like a jerk, and tell me :"you should just take me as I am", well fuck, you don't deserve a cool and nice understanding girlfriend. Nobody should be above, making efforts to be better !