Wow people really hate other people who struggle to express their emotions

I do agree Yohan was doing too much, but at the same time, when you’re in a relationship you have to learn to compromise. Feeling embarrassed or awkward over showing your love to your partner is not an excuse to simply not do it. It’s also kinda fucked up to say you’re embarrassed over smth like that when your partner shows you affection all the time. After 7 years of being together, it’s going to get to you, even if it’s subconscious. He even asked him to not hug him so his cologne doesn’t rub off on him I wouldn’t react like Yohan, but I would def be upset and anxious too

omg thank you. I love them way too much to see any fault in either of them at this point lmfao they were my first manhwa. I just can’t

It's not f***ed up to feel awkward or embarrassed by physical or verbal affection at all, or to struggle with showing your feelings. That's just how some people are and there's nothing wrong with that.

Mugyeong's hasn't been very expressive from the start so Yohan shouldn't expect him to suddenly change his whole personality just because he's in a relationship. That's not loving a person as they truly are. That's loving your idea of them.

If he wanted someone expressive, he shouldn't have chased Mugyeong and become his boyfriend in the first place with those kinds of expectations.

You're welcome

if we talked in irl relationship, I do get what yohan felt, he's anxious, his partner is not too different from before and after the relationship, heust need to be secured by little affectionate here and there, it's not like he asked for 24/7, at the same time mugyeong should noticed his partner too, that's a relationship, if you did say that yohan shouldn't catch him, it's not going to go up either, as partner we shouldn't be too clingy but at the same time, we had to pay attention too to our partner, from what I see it's yohan the one that worked hard on that, that's why I guess yohan is the real one here, had it been not yohan, mogyeong might hard to find a stable partner if he's like that, who wanted a partner that indifferent to you imo (≧∀≦)

Yea sorry I meant more so it’s messed up to not show effort in that department after 7 years of your partner constantly showing that to you

Your spouse 100% should be accepting you for who you are, but everyone has flaws and I would say that despite it not being a major problem, being non-affectionate after years of being in a relationship is a flaw for someone like Yohan who clearly needs reassurance in some aspect, just like most ppl would in that position. Most ppl wouldn’t react like Yohan ofc, but either way, it’s normal to go out of your way in some manner for the person you love

For example, someone I know is an introvert and he’s dating a major extrovert, but because he loves her, he goes out of his way to hang out w her and her friends despite him not wanting to. And in return, she decides to stay in w him at other points. It’s balanced like any relationship should be. This one isn’t as balanced. One is affectionate and the other is the complete opposite, not being able to say the words “I love you” out loud confidently. That’s bound to hurt the feelings of your partner when it happens time and time again over the span of years. And Mugyeong’s also been asking him to not leave anything on him that may make ppl assume he’s in a relationship which is another blow to Yohan

I do wanna make it clear that I’m actually rlly bothered by the way Yohan’s acting and would’ve broken up w him a long ass time ago if I was Mugyeong; being that jealous unnecessarily constantly is actually disturbing and I’ve seen plenty relationships end because of similar reasons. I just wanted to expand on why I think Mugyeong was also fucking up their relationship too

Why should anyone expect their partner to be different after being in a relationship? That's a recipe for disaster and why most relationships fail. Being in love and/or loved in return doesn't magically turn you into a whole new person. It's supposed to enhance the person you already are.

If someone really loved you for who you are, they shouldn't expect you to change just to please them, which is what Yohan is doing.

Mugyeong is making mistakes but they make sense because it's in line with his personality and how he thinks. He's never shown any signs of disloyalty so it's not his fault that Yohan doesn't trust him. And it's clearly not the first time this has happened.

And he is paying attention to Yohan. He even bought him bread because he knows he likes it, and lets him do things in bed even if he's awkward. Yohan should be more grateful that he's being so expressive.

Thanks for explaining. Like I mentioned in my last comment to the other person, Mugyeong is making mistakes but they're in line with his personality and how he thinks. He's never shown any signs of disloyalty so it's not his fault Yohan continuously doesn't trust him.

He pays attention to Yohan in his own way such as by buying him bread because he knows he likes it, and letting him do things in bed even if he's awkward. Yohan should be more grateful that he's being this expressive and tolerating his obsessiveness.

you see, I'm not talking about mugyeong should change, what he need to is to secured yohan for knewing that yohan is also loved by him, the way I see it, Yohan think he's a FwB by Mugyeong, that's why he always doing here and there, not that I said that Yohan is not wrong, but I do get his insecurity of Mugyeong's action, see that recent chapter, Mugyeong is not having a problem with being leaned by his friend, but he said not to hug him in front of the said lover, who will not feelng sad by that? and once again, I'm not saying yohan is right, the only thing that mugyeong lacked is only to say love, I met several people broke just because the person said they felt awkward to expressed it, that's why once again, I said this is only a manhwa, if irl relationship people like mugyeong won't last long with their partner, but that is if he did it to everyone since yohan is not his first love afterall (●'◡'●)