As a character in the story I like her but as a girlfriend she is a terrible love interest

And this has nothing to do with a ship I do not want the two guys together so please don't start derailing that from my opinion.

She just did some master class gas lighting against him. I have not cared for her as a girlfriend most of the story because I feel like she does not really think about his feelings and it is so hypocritical for her to try to lecture him when she not only does the same thing she draws intense lines with him.
Yes he has really bad anxiety and honestly neither of them really need to be dating lol.