he only drew that line after leading the uke on, he knew what kind of kid he was and used that to use him, he knew the uke couldn’t refuse him when he offered up being only fuck buddies. so you’re completely wrong on the part of him not being a red flag. he’s a d bag don’t be ignorant now
Well look at it from the seme perspective, he just thought of this relationship as something casual and not that he is leading him on yk? He never said he likes him and never showed that in any kind of way in fact the uke is the one who clinged and still is clinging on the seme but that is okay because the uke knows what he wants and that is having any kind of realtionship with the seme so why complain about the sem
okay you're completely missing the whole point and refusing to see that the seme is just using him there is no “from his respective he thought-“ no from his perspective he found a kid who was easy to manipulate and use. you cannot seriously believe what you’re saying right now, you can try really hard to say he’s not a bad guy but it just shows you’ve never had a relationship like this or you’re just a really young child yourself. and this has nothing to do with “he never said he liked him” we all know that’s not our problem with him that’s also another fact to show how ignorant you are to this kind of behavior he is showing
“the uke clinged to him” because he likes him. he only took up the offer to being fuck buddies is cos that’s the only way he can be with him. and the seme knew he wouldn’t reject the offer THATS what makes him a dick. he is just using him so all the “sweet” shit he does is for his own gain, do you get it now? or are you just gonna cling to the idea he’s a innocent guy. because if he was a good guy just looking for something casual he would’ve said that in the vary beginning not lead him on and then draw the line at fucking buddies. do what u will with what ive said, can’t change someone’s mind when their so determined on their fixed opinion
no you’re right I never said he is not using him yk? He is using him as a fuck buddy so much is obvious. And yeah he could have told the uke from the beginning hey let’s just fuck nothing more are you okay with that but that is not how it happens in the most cases also in reality yk? Bc sometimes you go with the flow first and them when it becomes serious (when the uke talks about being a couple) he just then feels the need to clear thei realtionship but why was is the seme responsible to make the status cleat in the beginning why couldn’t the uke ask first hey are we going to be a couple? Sure we could explain it with because the uke is too innocent or blended but yk exactlyyyy those questions show how a relationship that was never clear from the beginning because of BOTH CHARACTERS is in reality. AND what you don’t see is that we as the readers know why the uke is so clingy because of his past and everything so that’s why we have so much sympathy for the uke and think oh no he just accepts the fuck buddy offer to be with the seme. But the seme doesn’t know all that? He just thinks wow a cute naiv guy who is okay to fuck well let’s do this and nothing more. Does that make the seme a selfish and maybe arrogant person? Yes. But does that make him a bad person generally which y’all triying to make him look like? I really don’t think so
so what I’m trying to say is that you have a problem that he didn’t make it clear from the beginning and lead him kinda on but in my opinion that’s just how their relationship started like with no clear words or status or intentions yk just going with the flow but obviously the uke didn’t think like the seme here and that is the only problem because the seme knows he likes him and should just leave him when he knows he doesn’t want to be a couple. But also the seme just thinks well he doesn’t really like me he’s just a kid who thought he likes me because we fucked and spend some time and that’s it he doesn’t take the -are we a couple- really serious. So the uke is just too naiv and has to speak up and the seme has to be more considerate towards ukes feelings but girl they have just metttt how could this work nowww
you’re still missing the point and it’s sad
I have to admit - i don't hate the seme one bit. He is entitled to draw a line at sex and he never said they were a couple. He treats our baby boy well and without wanting things in return (aside from the sex of course). Of course I want him to fall haaaaaard for my cute little baby! I just wanted to say he isn't a red flag in my opinion.