THANK YOU SWEET JESUS. People really exaggerating and calling Woo A BAD PARTNER? Seriously? They yap about Woo not giving much trust to his partner, but look at them not talking about Seo-An hiding the fact he went to see his father without his consent? Is that not breaking trust? Is trust not important, hypocrites.
Both come from different upbringings, how hard is it to understand that? I see some double standards honestly, but I won’t speak of that in case they come for me haha. Honestly? They are both frustrating but that’s what humans can do to other humans lol.
They are opposites of each other. Because Woo didn’t have the same luxury as Seo A financially, Woo relied on himself mainly and tried to keep his family safe, or at least his mother from his father like you said.
It’s easy to tell him to go to the cops but the cops can be corrupt a lot of times considering it’s taken in South Korea. People act as if Woo is a bad partner, he really isn’t, it’s their communication that is ass and Woo’s insecurities maybe, or it’s just his habit of relying on himself. It doesn’t mean he has any lesser love.
Also let’s not forget how Seo A talks and decides for their relationship as if his partner is just a mere pet on the surface. He said something about how HE DECIDES to Woowon I think.
I LOVE YOU, I COULDNT EXPLAIN BUT YOU DID IT SOOOO WELL, PEOPLE CANT ACCEPT THAT THERE ARE DIFFERENT KINDS OF PEOPLE IN THIS WORLD
EXACTLY. He is toxic at how he does what he thinks is right even though it's Woo won's personal peroblem that he particularly wanted to hide. Having such a father is kind of shameful y'know?? Especially if your boyfriend is a classy and rich-ass person. He may be timid but I'm sure he has his own pride, he wanted to look good in front of the one he loves but alas, he got called weak and pushover by his own lover. Even though Seo an menas well, gis way of expressing that is hurting woo won. Seo An never learned how to be considerate of other's feelings, just like woo won never learned to lean on others.
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Like I always believe that good intentions has to be expressed in a good way, because no one can understand your kindness and intentions if you express them badly.
Hey, you guys acting like you guys never struggle. I even read some comment saying that some people defending woowon just because he is hot LMAO.
They come from different upbringings. Seo an might be alone in his family but he has POWER and MONEY. Woo won on the other hands, has a family on his back WITHOUT money nor power. Seo an can do anything because he is used to having power and he only needs to lift his finger to solve everything by money. But woo won? He has nothing. Not even the power to keep his mother safe for sure from his father. Imagine his fear if something happens to his mother while he is working. Imagine how much he will be blaming himself for it?
These explains their way of doing things.
Seo an is forceful, confident, strong, and don't give a fuck to anyone else. He decides whatever he think is right, he did whatever he wants. While Woo won is kind, with low self confidence, works hard, and never complains. He always think of other before himself. He can't even do anything he wants (ex. Swimming, with his injuries and no money).
They are too different. There's no way they won't have a misunderstanding and not understanding each other.
Seo an thinks as his boyfriend, he should do anything he can for his boyfriend. He act like he didn't do anything wrong, but the fact that he is hiding that he met woo won's father is exactly because he knew woo won won't like that. And he still did anyway. Even knowing that woo won will get upset.
Of course, what he did is a good thing for woo won, but not secretly and with such a toxic wordings to explajn. Talk. Ask for his problems, ask his permissions. He has a good intentions, I'm sure he doesn't like seeing his loved ones treated so badly, that's why he moved even without permissions. He is good at heart, we all know that. But not having a proper parents to watch him grow up made him this way.
Woo won is wrong at how he is not used to depend on others. And he is too kind in his nature, he doesn't immediately think bad of others, as he is actually raised by a kind mother, although trashy father. He should learn thatbit is okay to ask for help, and to tell his loved ones his trouble. But even in the real world, there are people like him. Are they pathethic and annoying? No. Its just they are not as strong and selfish as others. They don't know how to. Because they grew up thinking if others, and foing things for others.
UNDERSTAND THEIR CHARACTER WON'T YOU? Don't just start calling someone annoying just because you couldn't understand what they have been going through. Maybe you are strong enough to do it, but woo won who never even experienced having "power" wouldn't be able to. Seo an who is too used of power but grew up alone, also is struggling with communications and how to respects others.
Both are wrong, but at the same time both are understandable.