Potential BL ship? They are fetishizers, ugh. Can’t a man be feminine without being pulled into gay stuff? I read BL but I don’t make up ships when we all know FL here and him are the couple and good one too.
She is not bad just stuck up must be some grand ass , rape ass trauma cuz ain't no way she's like this because of her parents and their weird dynamic, even if she lack emotions, she should stop dragging my boy yeonwoo he was trying so hard for nothing
Honestly I agree, tbh it kinda seems like she’s aromantic, she may or may not be asexual but as an aromantic person myself, I agree with some of the things she feels. Ofc she is a jerk for the way she’s treating Yeonwoo, and she shouldn’t treat him like that. She’s definitely stuck up but I don’t think sexual and/or romantic trauma is the source of why she acts like that. I could be wrong but this is just my personal opinion.
Sexuality and general knowledge does go hand to hand , she knows how other people do stuff but here she's like some village girl who has no idea what's up with her surrounding and there's some things that she clearly understand and hides .
Wanting my guy not to go back to her toxic ass make us fetishizers ? Tf does this have to do with my guy Mc deserving better u just need to stop D riding her emotionless ass she’s a bad toxic character who is playing with the mc emotions and literally manipulates him every interaction they have ain’t no one saying he’s gay and he should be with his guy friend
No im saying it in general. If you feel offended, that’s on you. I’m saying that the BL stories are heavily fetishized.
See this is weird she’s not bad or toxic, she’s done bad things but she’s a teenager and teenagers tend to act like that. Also if you’d look at more comments you will definitely find ppl shipping them so idk if ur being ignorant on purpose or what
Oh yea teenagers can’t be toxic nor bad got u bruh bye the way she manipulate bro every time they interact is not toxic nor bad now who’s the one being ignorant ?? And the way she brings bro self-esteem done every moment then be like uhh why u don’t ask me talk to me blah blah like I said if u fine this normal seek therapy plz :))
ain’t offended but what does bl stories have to do with this one ? ¯_(ツ)_/¯
To those who ship ML and this other dude in this story. You sounded pretty mad so I said that, if not, cool.
Ain’t mad I just talk like that
Someone needs to find critical thinking skills bc I did not say teenagers can’t be bad if you look at haesol as a character you can see that she’s trying to be a good person, she wasn’t trying to be manipulative. Most teenagers struggle with identity and I think it’s pretty obvious that haesol is the same way. It doesn’t make what she did to yeonwoo right but it also doesn’t mean she’s evil. Yeonwoo Isn’t perfect either but I don’t see a lot of people criticize him. Also it is a pretty common occurrence among queer teenagers struggling with identity to do similar things and you using therapy as a dig is very weird lmao. Develop media literacy skills pretty please
yea she trying to improve so much where did we read the same story ? Yea I think she trying to improve by just doing nothing yea like when playing with his feelings literally another human being just bc she doesn’t understand her is bullshit and each time she goes on and on telling him not do thing she doesn’t like but she does the same thing ? Like telling mc to break it of with his friends bc she jealous but when he says the same thing she’s like huh uh I won’t break it and make him feel like he in the wrong? worse of all she demands him to say his trauma while she doesn’t do the same and tell him he have no right to know? Am not using get a therapist as a dig I am genuine really get a therapist if u think this is normal and the only person her who need to develop their media literacy is u my guy and some some critical thinking and genuine question when was it mentioned she was queer ? ಠ_ಠ
Okay not mad but def passive aggressive
I used queer as an umbrella term but in my opinion it’s very likely she is asexual and aromatic. I think it’s pretty safe to say she’s struggling with identity at the very least if you don’t think she’s either. You have such black and white thinking too, just because ppl try to improve themselves doesn’t mean that they are doing the right thing. I believe that if we pay attention to the subtext of the story there are a lot of instances where haesol wants to be “normal” which she might think is improving herself. She might’ve dated yeonwoo because of this or because she genuinely cares for him a lot. Other characters have commented on it and noticed it which is why I don’t believe she is playing with his feelings. And yes she is very contradictory but like I haven’t met one mentally ill teenager who isn’t. Like how have you read this long with such closed off thinking all of the characters are flawed that’s what makes the story interesting. I’m not saying she’s perfect or a good person, but she is definitely not a vindictive evil person.
Idk Whatever u say ¯_(ツ)_/¯ either way have a good day:)
It still doesn’t give her the right to play with him tf u trying to def ? Literally bro seek help ?!? Wdym closed off thinking it’s literally clear. U don’t need that much thinking to see what she is doing is fine .and most of the characters there want through shit do u see them take it out on others ? Being toxic af . shit mc went through worse does he manipulate her the same way no ? No stop defending toxic behaviour not all mentally ill teenagers are like that where u get ur stats from and don’t put a theory in an argument bc it’s ur own theory and there is no backing to it . She still doesn’t deserve the mc doesn’t matter if she is not that all evil she is still going on and on on ruining my guy after he tried to improve now plz stop defending her behaviour bc it ain’t normal:)
Bro you are literally proving my point that you have no media literacy skills, I didn’t use a theory I used subtext which is stuff ppl learn in middle school. I didn’t say it gave her any right either, did you read anything I actually said??? also other characters have been just as bad as haesol too and we don’t even know haesol’s backstory yet so comparing trauma is crazyyyy. I’m not even defending her behavior, I said what she did was awful but I also think ppl are weird for demonizing her when, surprise surprise, the story commenting on mental health has a character who displays the negative effects of mental illness. Two things can be true at once
Firstly English ain’t my first language it’s actually my 4 so don’t go babbling on on that I don’t have no media literacy skill and if u look back this whole time ur ass is still defending her and no which efing character is doing as shit as here and no I ain’t comparing trauma am saying the mc went through shit But he still doesn’t be toxic to others and not like I said plz for the love of god seek some therapy if ur normalizing her behaviour and thinking it’s normal we don’t need ppl like u out here in the world normalizing toxicity and stupidity:) okay? Or does ur brain not get it yet ?
Girl…LMAO you keep talking in circles media literacy has nothing to do with languages, normalizing negative effects of mental health isn’t a bad thing because it prevents shaming which gives ppl the courage to go to therapy. Also you completely ignoring my point, I defend her as a character because she isn’t an evil character but I don’t defend her actions because they are still wrong even if I think the explanation is valid. I don’t expect you to understand because talking to you is like talking to a brick wall. Also yeonwoo literally threatened to hurt himself, I’d consider that toxic in a lot of different circumstances but I don’t think yeonwoo is a bad person because of his backstory and the steps he has taken to make things right so like maybe wait till we get to haesol heavy chapters before yelling about how awful she is. Didn’t want to make it about gender but it truly feels like y’all will not give the same grace to women as y’all do with men
Even though I feel bad for yeonwoo I still feel like haesol is over-hated. Obviously her not liking him and still dating him was awful, but ppl hated her for a general lack of emotion and getting in between a potential bl ship before this she’s a complex character but some ppl act like she’s pure evil. I feel a tad bit of misogyny from some of you