I don't know. I really prefer when BL show non con and we can obviously see it's abuse. There was this story in which a guy said I think on reddit that he was having sex with his wife and she asked for him to stop and he didn't (there was more to the story but that's the gist). And I wonder what's the difference to uke asking seme to wait/stop and him continuing? Younger people may think this is normal but if the consent is taken even though it was given before, the other person should stop. Sure uke apparently liked it but it gave me a bad taste.
I don't know. I really prefer when BL show non con and we can obviously see it's abuse. There was this story in which a guy said I think on reddit that he was having sex with his wife and she asked for him to stop and he didn't (there was more to the story but that's the gist). And I wonder what's the difference to uke asking seme to wait/stop and him continuing? Younger people may think this is normal but if the consent is taken even though it was given before, the other person should stop. Sure uke apparently liked it but it gave me a bad taste.