this is fucked up oml,tell the kid you are his mother alr that's what im waiting for

I think he's hesitating because he's aware he's mentally unstable and doesn't feel like be deserves to be a parent until his mental health is better. I also think he's worried about how everything (new parent, mental health, etc.) will affect the child. He's scared.

i feel so sorry for him ngl

Same!! I can't wait until he's able to tell their son, bc I think it'll make a world of difference for his healing.