Ik it was rumor at the end but-

She’s a no hold barred FL and technically even if he was engaged since they haven’t consummated the marriage or got together I don’t think it’s that bad.. heck we even saw it would’ve a political marriage

don't defend it mate, we all know that would be a bitch move in any situation
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And your point is? She did infact ask an engaged man to sleep, political or not.

I mean in the context of the story.. he was forced to be involved with the other company daughter and he had no interest in her.. so who’s to say that it’s WHOLLY wrong? As long as he’s upfront about it I mean?!

Plus all she did was ask, he’s the one who accepted it!! I wouldn’t agree with a forced marriage and I would be upfront about it to both parties that I’m not following said plan so I don’t see the immoral nature of it but I guess to each their own (〜￣△￣)〜

It’s like in irl how parents force their children with their matchmaking, you really think everyone is holding their chasity before said marriage?

Girl your morals are so downbad it is wrong, and both of them are equally in the wrong. If you're forced into a marriage, break it off? Rather than fucking some other chic WHILE engaged, that's where ML is wrong.
And the FL... Shis fucked up. He was (rumoured) to be engaged, forced or not, asking an engaged man to sleep with her is WHOLLY wrong.
Don't defend it. Cuz it's clearly not a matter of 'each their own' that's like saying cheating can be condoned for cheaters cuz it's their opinion.
You need to get serious help from a therapist or asylum if you think otherwise.

But that’s what I said? I said that the ML needs to be upfront about not accepting the marriage? Not doing it WHILE engaged lol

And when I meant “to each of their own” I meant calling out couples who stay in a forced marriage but make it their own choice to not be faithful to the party because of said reason (abuse, forced nature) and not just said dissatisfaction lol. I mean of course cheating would be wrong in a relationship where both parties are seeking marriage. I personally didn’t see anything but that doesn’t mean I need therapy?! lol

And also it’s not that serious I just enjoyed the nice smut and found the FL to be catty

Well it's just that you kept on sort of condoning by terms like "it's not so bad" or it isn't wholly wrong, that's why it irked me
I agree with the marriage part but according to the story plot line, we are yet to see the said "finacee" so obv, this isn't a matter of both parties having common grounds of being unfaithful. The FL was indeed the third woman and a housewrecker and the ML was a cheating asshole (if said financee existed)
It is DEFINITELY wholly wrong if anyone was to look as a 3rd person pov-
Right ofc it is above all a fiction anyway

If you read the chapter properly, she didn’t mean to say it in the first place. Hence why she was so shocked after she said it. She was planning to just resign and leave but he kept asking.