We have to keep in mind when we read a Chinese manhwa that we are reading a book based upon their cultures mindset. They believe in man Asian nations very old fashioned. The feel that you should go back & work it out no matter how much abuse you go thru. This is why divorce is very uncommon. Think about it your reading a manhwa that kissing is often covered up. Just to get a manhwa with boy & boy not boy & girl you still have to pass certain moral regulations. Many say gay people don't care about commitment its easy to leave them. So they will often push for the mls to stick it out thru it all just to pass China's morality ban on these types of books.
I get that in some cases it’s a cultural mindset to stay in an abusive or harmful relationship, but that doesn’t magically nullify how problematic it is. It’s unpleasant to watch characters suffer like this while abuse is excused or swept under the rug. One person is unilaterally harming another both physically and psychologically for their own benefit. Just because something is normalized doesn’t mean it’s acceptable or enjoyable to witness in media.
To be honest, this doesn't redeem anything about this ml...I just hope the rabbit won't feel anything about this guy and totally forgets him...