I don't get what you are mad at him... You cannot expect everyone to be a mind-reader. If the uke tried to allude that he was in abusive relationship, I'm confident the friend would reach hand. I mean, he never even imagined that he was going to something awful after he landed in his dream college. You cannot expect people to understand you if you don't express yourself.
He interrupted the uke right as he was asking permission. I appreciate a hard boundary, but would it have killed him to ask WHY he wanted to stay over?
"He interrupted the uke " And nothing stopped the Uke to go back to his point like the big boy that he is. And the friend asked him "What's with you".
I am putting myself in the friend's shoe and I refuse to take the blame for the Uke's inability to properly voice an alarming situation, he ain't a toddler. You cannot expect people to "pamper you" in every casual conversation. Getting interrupted time to time is normal.
Would it have killed the Uke to take extra length to clarify his situation? You cannot expect people to help you anytime because they are "friends" : they ain't your momma and you ain't their baby.
I'm sorry for the Uke, but I cannot extend the cause of his misery to an oblivious third party.
Would it kill the abused his whole life uke to immediately ask for what he needs?
No. But it sure as hell will take a long time go get there.
I'm just saying as extroverted as his friend is, he could have prodded a little more.
I can see it from, both sides. I'm not saying this is all Gyeol's fault.
I'm just really disappointed in him in this moment.
I understood Gyeol not always reaching out, because it's hard to be there for a friend who always seems to struggle and keeps going back for more.
But this mother fucker really didn't even listen to a word he said when he asked for help.
I'm sorry, did your extrovert ass couldn't spare the time?
Did you not have any friends who needed a roommate? Or do you only know assholes!
Piece of shit.