REAL from the top to the bottom!
I am personally not involved in that community, but I've even heard from a few of them saying that involving others in a play goes agaisnt the ethic code because they are non consenting particiapnts or something like that (implying that something like this - the public display - would be crossing a line)
I started reading stories with healthy BDSM and it shocked me. They talked about sub and Dom trainings, Std tests, hard and soft nos BEFORE they start any session and what not. Comming back to these kind of stories with half assed BDSM depiction is kinda depressing
yooo where u findin all these healthy bdsm stories I need to know... for science....
On Wattpad, I recommend xxprinceanonymousxx
i think its not wrong to hope for accurate representation in a BDSM story; however it doesnt make you a bad person for enjoying and consuming BDSM media that has misconceptions or is not depictive of a healthy BDSM relationship. it doesnt make the media inherently bad either. you should just be aware that the relationship ISNT healthy nor should you set it as the standard for a normal BDSM relationship. i do hope that the people in the comments realize that public plays are pretty fucking weird however... its not wrong for someone to dislike/show their dislike of public plays when frankly its harmful of varying degrees to the public and its literally illegal. that being said its fiction so again who cares