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The ones that hate him treated him as a perfect person that makes no mistake because it would be easy to drag him when a makes mistakes.
What Jo did at the end was a non-con but it was not the worse compared to what we see in BL. I've seen Tops doing something similar to their lovers while they passed out but people never consider that's as an issue.
Yall jo aint an angel and you will realize that soon let me just say some dubious consent happens after ian passes out :d chapter 52