I'm tired of stories where the mc raises their lovers 😭 I used to be ok with that trope...

I'm tired of stories where the mc raises their lovers I used to be ok with that trope but now that I'm older it's starting to look really weird to me. There are exceptions (like svsss) but overall I don't like how it's become a thing.

So if you have stories where the cool protagonists take in a child and the love interest is someone else I'd love that.