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hello everyone I need some advice (again) and I don't care if you think that I'm a attenti...

smexy_yaoi_action March 19, 2017 10:22 pm

hello everyone I need some advice (again) and I don't care if you think that I'm a attention whore lol actually maybe I'm one XDThis is a long story so the text is going to be long. To leave that aside I have a huge crush on my classmate. She is a girl and I am a girl too. I think she doesn't like me that much that I like her.The conversations between her and me are so fucking akward but sometimes she's laughting about me too or giving me compliments. When I'm in this situation I'm getting pretty nervous and I'm babbling shit, I'm getting weird and my face is gettting red and so on.. I would really like too get closer to her but 1. she has a boyfriend and 2. I'm really nervous around her because she is hot and that's why I'm constantly avoiding her. I can remember how I was walking out of school to the bus station and I saw her with her boyfriend walking in front of me... and I think she knew very well that I was behind her and she just grabbed the hand of her fucktard boyfriend and they were walking like a goddamn couple. I got so jealous and so sad. My chest hurted. I was pissed off to everyone at my school even to my precious friends who did nothing wrong. The whole week was just a pain in the ass and the next week is going to be pissing me even more off. I'm just mad at me that I'm not better looking and that I have such a weird personality. Maybe that's why she doesn't like me so much. How can I forget her already it's getting sad and annoying thinking about her?

Responses
    Mika Sucks March 19, 2017 10:38 pm

    Grab her by the pussy(๑•ㅂ•)و✧

    linknh0k March 19, 2017 10:47 pm

    As far as I see there's no concrete evidence that she does not like you. If she does not like you she will not talk to you or laugh with you.

    She might not know about your feelings, so I don't think she has any bad intention when she held hand with her bf infront of you like that.

    Being irritated and thinking that you are not good enough is quite a normal mental state when you have a crush on someone but you know you cannot have them (I have gone through the same experience too). It's totally normal for everyone, so don't worry too much about it.

    Being in an one-sided love is quite painful & will make you tired & depressed sometimes. It's like holding a very heavy stone for a long time. You feel really tired but cannot put it down or throw it away.

    But love & crush does not last forever, usually. So if you do not want to confess to her, just avoid her as much as you can since meeting her will make you painful & annoyed. Find something to make you busy, to distract yourself from your one-sided love. Trust me, finally this love will likely to fade, maybe not completely disappear, but grow thinner & weaker until the day it will not bother you as much as now (I also experienced the same thing & this was the result).

    If you decide to confess to her, just do it in the most sincere way you can think of. And remember, whatever her reply is, you are not in the wrong for confessing to her. You did what is right for your heart, you are honest & brave.

    Good luck in finding your own way. Everything will be ok. (▰˘◡˘▰)

    smexy_yaoi_action March 20, 2017 2:19 pm
    As far as I see there's no concrete evidence that she does not like you. If she does not like you she will not talk to you or laugh with you. She might not know about your feelings, so I don't think she has any... linknh0k

    Thank you for your answer. You are right. She might didn't have a bad intention with that handholding with her boyfriend. I overreacted there XD. I'm not going to confess to her since we are not friends just fellows. Yes it's painful and as you say I'm have to try distracting myself to the point were I'm going to forget. Thank you again for your honest answer it really helped me! (●'◡'●)ノ

    smexy_yaoi_action March 20, 2017 2:21 pm
    Grab her by the pussy(๑•ㅂ•)و✧ Mika Sucks

    Lmao I would love to but her boyfriend is already grabbing her by the pussy hahahah (〜 ̄△ ̄)〜

    Mika Sucks March 23, 2017 2:43 am

    in all seriousness, even if you don't end up getting together, I'm sure there is someone out there for you and will love you no matter what. No matter how long it will take to find that special someone for you. Sometimes you will find that lovely person, but you'll be friends for a long time before getting into a romantic relationship. For example, a boy named Dan Howell was 18 before he found his best friend, Phil Lester. Phil is 30 now and Dan is 26. Now, A LOT of people suspect this year, they've gotten into a relationship, because they've been so much more "lovey-dovey," "touchy-feely," and overall, just happier people, and that's what you'll do/feel when you get into a healthy and happy (I'm a children's doctor now lmao"healthy and happy" ded)romantic relationship. Best of luck and I hope everything works out for you! ~ (▰˘◡˘▰)

    smexy_yaoi_action March 23, 2017 7:31 pm
    in all seriousness, even if you don't end up getting together, I'm sure there is someone out there for you and will love you no matter what. No matter how long it will take to find that special someone for you.... Mika Sucks

    thank you for cheering me on!! I guess everyone finds someone who truly loves them...I just have to wait :))