Sounds like even if they get married they'll end up divorcing so why get married in the first place? Imho find someone else, she just seems focused around the money like you said, to her maybe it's like a job she doesn't want to do, so it's better to find someone more sincere and not focused around the money. Hope it helps, wish the best for your auntie's son
Not worth it. I she doesn't even like him, why marry him in the first place?? Also does the dude have no opinion or something? I think the girl is just in for the money.
As I see it, your family'll lose money for the wedding and then twice as much for the divorce. This is just dumb.
If she doesn't like him, she just shouldn't stay. And your cousin is going to be hurt too in that situation. Better cut it before it rots.
Nah he wants to settle down because he's 27 and start living in a separate house with his wife.
So they went overseas to fine a wife from a poor family because they think farm wives are more humble than rich girls who has slaves (stereotype I know, not all rich people are greedy and the poor can be greedy too). Like seriously I didn't know one of my aunt over there has a slave because the slave basically went everywhere with us and I presumably thought she was family... but she freaks out when I help clean the dishes etc.
Well basically my auntie is looking for a carer because she's afraid who would would look after her son when they grow old and sick. That was her main focus.
And all he want is company, he doesn't want kids because he's afraid the kid would become blind too or other minor disability and he's humble to respect her decision. For example he told her you don't need to sleep on the same bed and to make it more comfortable he moved into the storage room and she can have his room instead because it's bigger in addition remove his things for her to put her things. #sweet♡
I also agree with them. If I have a cousin like that, I don't want him to get married with someone that aren't sincere and only think of him as a job to take care. But have you tried to ask her or tried to talk to her or something? You should ask her whether she loves your cousin or not and then if necessary, give her some advice.
Yeah that's what I'm going to do tomorrow as a day to hang out, especially when im one of the bridmaides. Also going to a country and have no friends sucks, like I just started University and I don't know anyone and majority of them are Chinese so they keep it in their group whilst others are awkwardly silent to talk too. It's awkard so I stay quiet in the back seats. And when I first met her she seem nice and really pretty and tbh I thought she was too good for him because she's super pretty and speaks kindly whilst he's a low average and hard to talk too because he's partly blind and partly death too... so as a small quite person and him leaning over to see you better and talks loudly scares me sometimes. But then it became he's too good for her... so yeah don't judge a book by its cover until you read a random page from the book... unless you want to use a book for style purpose, is up to you I guess ^ +^
Hey this is random but there are time when you want to hear others opinions. Ok you know how some people get arranged marriage and sometimes it's good or it's bad. So my auntie did an arrange marriage for her son (more like someone to care of him... he's a sweet dude, average looking, quiet and partly blind_ so that's why she tried to find someone for him). Auntie told the girl that and they met and she agreed to marry him. But after she came to Australia she doesn't try to talk to him, she told him she hates him and get auntie to buy her things because auntie wants to welcome her but I think things getting out of hand, like she doesn't want to do anything at all. And they afraid that she just going for the money.
They're not registered yet so in my opinion I want to ask her does she want to be here, if not, leave after your visa is due (9month) and just do what you want right know. Go find a job to buy things that you want and learn while you can. Because we don't want her feel like she's in prison but all she do is sit in a dark corner... I understand you're coming to a different country and things she knows might be different to ours. And to be honest I think they rushed it too fast because they're having a wedding basically within 2 weeks.
What do you guys think