what are you yapping about? if a story is slow burn then it’s obviously going to be a plot driven story with depth to the characters - not just smash and then story. if you’re looking for smut or straight up porn, go read something else instead of making complaints about a story because there isn’t any sex yet
Bc Yaoi litterally means ,,no climax, no point, no meaning" and yes that doesn't mean all yaoi, are just sex and nothing else, but it has to be primarily about sex, bc yaoi is gay porn. If it's more about the story and relationship even if there are some spicy scenes then it's BL or shonen ai. So yes this is a scam
I feel like you had to go back decades to make a point seem valid.. If you googled it , as I suspect, you see that that usage was 1970-1980 roughly.. perhaps 50 years ago. By the 1990's the term yaoi was evolving.
Now days, yaoi is love/romance between men that shows more graphic genitalia. Shounen Ai is usually considered the same type of love, but without the graphic genitalia. All are under the umbrella term of BL.
And the problem here is just patience.. yaoi doesn't mean it has to be primarily about showing graphic s*x, it means it will contain it.
Exatly, you feel, but yaoi still means explicit BxB love, to distinguish it from sweer stories or plot driven stories where romance is a secondary thing.
Why would you classify as what it isn't? When people who want sex will search for yaoi and people who want romance and story will search for boy's love and shonen ai. Why would you confuse them?
It's like calling romance shojo and slightly ecchi mangas hentai.

Which chapters are the spicy one's? I can't find any