I think they both are people pleasers in their own way

Wait why do you think ookami is a pleaser?

Probs because he lets himself be fucked so easily without any resistance

It shows lack in self-respect and respect for his autonomy and body

Ahh makes sense but I thought he did that just because he didn't really gaf about anything like he's apathetic

Maybe he is, but usually there's a reason behind apathy, dissociation and the like. Again, author decides though. ^^

Yeahh