Nope, some couples do discuss and approve of the other person initiating sex while asleep.
A lot of women have expressed their boyfriends enjoy being woken up by a morning bj, we just don't know if they've had this discussion.
Are you stupid? these people are strangers. The sleeping person DID NOT consent. If it is done without consent it is rape.
Are YOU stupid? They've been in a relationship for a while now. The dude was just coming back from a meet abroad...
Wow. A whole new level of stupidity. They didn't talk about it first. It doesn't matter if you are dating or not if you didn't talk about it then its rape
Exactly. I thought this was common sense but apparently not.
It's rape.
Wow. Almost as if... I literally said this in my first reply. This is a story, we don't have every facet of their relationship, we don't know every discussion that's been had. I chose to give the author the benefit of the doubt and assumed this has been discussed before.
Jesus H Christ, don't try to act condescending. I know what rape is. Based on how receptive the bottom was, I chose to believe this is something they like to do in THEIR relationship.
You don't always need to explicitly say "Put your dick in me" for consent to be given, especially when you've been dating for a while.
Are you a 13 year old? They weren't dating. The bottom didn't even know what the other person looked like. He met him for the first time. When he caught the top doing that the first thought in his mind was to report him to the police. Because he did not consent.
Also you choosing to believe something doesn't mean that is what happened. It was rape even the victim felt so. Also when you are in a relationship it doesn't mean you automatically consent to everything. You should ask everytime. It doesn't take much time to ask do you want to do this.
My bad, sorry beloved. I reread this and saw that he was being rapey in the first chapter.
I read this months ago so I was referencing the latest side stories. In the side story they have been dating for a while, so I'm hoping the author got some sense and this is something they're okay with in their relationship.
I obviously know that you don't automatically consent to everything in a relationship which is why I started this conversation by saying once the couple has discussed being okay with initiating sex while one is asleep then it wouldn't be rape
isnt this literally rape???